- I’m unsure how I feel right now. My mom called to tell me she called my house to speak to one of the kids and he said my x is moving his stuff out. The plan was for him to be gone by the end of this month in general. I thought maybe with our son’s surgery he would milk another month. I feel I think a combination of failure, excitement, and relief. It’s leaving a pit in my stomach. Other then that I was having a good day.