My number one problem in my mind is this battle of wanting to be perfect and not giving a fuck. I think a lot of my anxiety is wondering what will happen during the day that I will fuck up. It’s silly I’m good at my job and I have good kids. I think this is where my borderline personality disorder really plays into my life. If I’m not perfect there is no reason to exist. But it’s impossible to be perfect I know this. I still want it. I know I can’t be alone.
You’re not alone, I lean towards not even doing things if I feel I can’t do them perfectly… I’m learning to say fuck it though 😉
I’m trying to get there lol
I agree. I avoided doing so many things in my life because if I couldn’t do it perfectly I felt like a total failure. I decided along the way I would rather try and fall short than miss out on life and opportunities. You’ll get there in your own time. Practicing takes time in any endeavor, not just for those of us with mental health issues.
Thank you for your encouragement
I’m learning that it’s better to be perfectly imperfect!!
I like that I might use it 😉
Go ahead! “Good enough” is
Go ahead! “Good enough” is good enough most of the times! 😃